terça-feira, 16 de julho de 2013

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Gosto do doce e do salgado; gosto de rir e de sorrir; gosto de ler, não maior há prazer; gosto de cheirar livros, se forem antigos melhor! Gosto de gomas, gosto de pipocas, gosto de massa, basicamente como massa com tudo! Gosto de piercings e tatoos; gosto de música clássica, gosto de Hip-Hop. Jazz, Blues, Rock, Pop, Fado, enfim. Gosto de música! Gosto de mar, gosto do verde da relva, gosto do vento e se for aquela brisa fresca em dias de Verão, é quase perfeito. Gosto de observar, gosto de caminhar sem rumo, deambular pelas ruas, gosto de sapatos e VENERO saltos quantos mais altos melhores, gosto de conhecer, gosto de perguntar, gosto de sonhar, gosto de escrever, sou obcecada pelo cabelo do Brandon Boyd, vai para lá da obsessão; gosto de séries, gosto de filmes de má qualidade e ADORO sequelas, são os meus gulties pleasures! Gosto de ver a chuva a bater na janela, do cheiro da terra molhada; gosto de observar a lua, para mim é um tanto místico; gosto da noite, por ser tão misteriosa, gosto de abraços, gosto de Futebol, é o melhor desporto do mundo. Gosto de flores, de preferência jarros ou rosas (um pouco comum but still like it); gosto de unhas pintadas, quanto mais estranha for a cor mais vou gostar, gosto de lábios vermelhos, não há nada mais sexy! Gosto de pulseiras, adoro combinar vários tipos; gosto do meu cabelo - embora diga que não - do seu volume e da sua cor, gosto dos meus olhos - "comuns, mas estranhamente belos". Amo a minha família e a sua diversidade, adoro os meus amigos, aqueles seres estranhos... Enfim, gosto de tanta coisa.

Gosto de mim, tenho orgulho naquilo que sou e no que posso vir a ser :).
Não sou assim tão complicada, apenas sigo o curso da Vida.


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quinta-feira, 4 de julho de 2013

Men things!

"HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN :

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. 

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. 

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. 

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. 

Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. 

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts..."


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terça-feira, 2 de julho de 2013

Vícios 19#


Não sei explicar como gosto deste senhor! É um dos meus cantores preferidos e sem a música dele a minha existência seria muito triste. John Mayer, é um dos melhores e faz-me feliz :).


E o seu novo single =D



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